Testimonials

I was at one of the lowest places in my marriage journey when I started coaching with Rebecca. She created such a safe, comforting, non-judgmental space for me. She was so warm and calming with her tone, words and way of being, that all of the secret thoughts I might have wanted to hold back just came pouring out. As we continued through coaching, it was so full of that same space! After she asked me a question, she gave great, full and “pregnant pauses” for me to really dig deep, cry, and process down to the bottom of my pure desires. She is just so patient and kind! She also asked me some very powerful and thought provoking questions that led me to a breakthrough. Questions that I continue to ask myself even today. She helped me to remember the Dianna I wanted to be, beyond my current situation and emotions, and empowered me to use practical steps to stand in that truth! Rebecca’s coaching is one of the most pivotal moments in my marriage journey. Rebecca is an amazing coach for women, fighting on the battlefield against divorce, as the mighty warrior she is. I’m so honored and proud to have had Rebecca as my coach. Thank you for changing me and my family’s life Rebecca! 

~ Dianna Nicole Stewart

Chicago, Illinois 

Before I received coaching from Rebecca, I was tired of my husband's grumpy mood and was exhausted and unhappy at home. I was so focused on his mood and would let it bring my entire world down. When I receive coaching from Rebecca I enjoyed so much compassion and empathy. She really related to my grumpy man so much and also kindly guided my focus to my own paper.  She has a gentle, light way of being that felt so bright and cheery and held my focus on the lighter parts of my life. Rebecca would empathize with me on the heaviness of my circumstances and at the same time helped me shift my focus to the happier positive light side.  I gained so much honesty with myself about how I could only control myself. I felt empowered to create new beliefs and more positive ways of looking at myself and my husband, as Rebecca modeled how powerful that practice had been for her.  I would recommend coaching with Rebecca to any woman who wants her power back and would like to light up her life and live happily to the maximum!

~ Martha Freeman 

Nashville, Tennessee

Rebecca is a walking Miracle! I have had the privilege of witnessing her transformation, from her dark days of fear and the possibility of losing her marriage to experiencing her courage to choose faith and believe she is married to the man of her dreams.

When I first met Rebecca, my husband and I were living separately. Witnessing Rebecca’s transformation gave me hope of restoring my own marriage and inspired me to continue working with the Six Intimacy Skills. Through working with Rebecca, I have learned that what I focus on expands and that I am the creator of my own reality! She handed me a magic wand and invited me to create the life and marriage of my dreams! My husband and I are now back together and I’m well on my way to becoming the woman I want to be and restoring peace and intimacy in my marriage.

Rebecca is a beacon of hope for hurting marriages and is a living example of how the Six Intimacy Skills can transform your marriage without your husband’s conscious effort.

I highly recommend Rebecca as a coach because she can empathize with woman struggling and feeling hopeless in their marriage and walk her through the hurt and fear into the light of faith and hope for a loving and caring relationship. 

~ Stacy Assar 

Newport Coast, CA 

As a newlywed and shortly after giving birth to our first baby, I fell into a dark, scary and hopeless state of mind and was suffering from postpartum depression and anxiety. I knew I needed to find help and first sought care through a traditional therapist, but felt that something was missing.  I decided to try coaching with Rebecca and initially I was nervous, but those nerves quickly dissipated, as Rebecca was nothing short of amazing. She is so caring, kind, wise and empathetic. I looked forward to our sessions and always felt energized and empowered by them. I can’t recognize the woman in the first session anymore, because I feel that with Rebecca’s guidance I transformed into a better version of my previous self.  I am forever grateful for my Coach Rebecca! I appreciate you so much! Thank you for everything! 

~Evelyn C.

Irvine, CA

When I started working with Rebecca I really didn’t know what to expect. My 20 year marriage had suffered through a lot of significant challenges over the years, despite a lot of attempts to change, including marriage counseling. I felt pretty hopeless that things could improve and I had one foot out the door. This was my last ditch effort at trying to save my marriage. When I first met with Rebecca I honestly didn’t think “6 skills” could help, but I was pretty desperate. After reading “The Empowered Wife” and attending coaching sessions with Rebecca, where I got to share what was really going on and putting the 6 skills into practice, I couldn’t believe how quickly my relationship with my husband began to improve. My husband even told me he saw such a change in me after only a couple of weeks! I was so eager to learn more and could cry at how much I needed these principles and tools and how quickly they were working! After only a couple of months, I began to see some really surprising and positive changes. I’ve always said that I have a blessed life, I just didn’t get the fairy tale marriage. Now I’m seeing SO much change that I’m beginning to think anything is possible!  I can now proudly say that I’m COMMITTED to my marriage! My work with Rebecca has not only saved my marriage, but my ability to be peaceful and happy! I am amazed, as in seriously floored!  Rebecca's coaching is such a gift!! She has helped my marriage SO much! I’m so grateful. Thank you! 

~ Cheri S.

Irvine, CA

When I started coaching with Rebecca my husband was sleeping on the couch and said he wanted a divorce. We had a 1-year old baby at the time and I was desparate to save my marriage. With Rebecca's support and encouragement, I started practicing the intimacy skills and began to see some improvement in our relationship pretty quickly. The ice seemed to melt between us and our interactions softened. After a couple of weeks, my husband started talking to me again and offering to cook me breakfast. Things were not perfect, but at least they were much better. Over the following months, my husband was no longer sleeping on the couch and there was no more mention of divorce. The skills and tools I've learned from Rebecca, along with her coaching and insight have been the most helpful for my relationship thus far! I've been working with Rebecca for a over a year now and my marriage has continued to improve! I recently gave birth to our second baby! I would never be where I am today had I not met Rebecca!  I am so, so very grateful for her help and support in keeping my family together!

~Michele 

Irvine, CA